Love and THE exchange of energy
Looking at the power of our feelings when we connect with someone special for those first intense days and weeks, it is fair to say the sparks fly when we are in an exchange of love and emotion. So why is it that so many people are saying they have not yet met the one, or they thought they had met the one only to realise that it was the one they should have not even bothered with. The sparks fizzled as fast as they appeared.
Questions we may ask, but not energetically feel appear: Why havnt I met the one? Is the feeling mutual? Is the energy exchange between the two fair and balanced? And why is it that you read all the signs and heard all the right things only for this love match to fizzle out into nothingness?
Scientists such as Dr. Masaru Emoto, a researcher and alternative healer, have proven the formation of physical reality can change when infused with different intention, energy and emotion. So what is your energetic “voice” saying about your relationships?
Watch and listen to your thoughts, they are infusing intention into your relationships and affecting the outcome of your vibrational match.
Working with the concept that your thoughts create your beliefs and your beliefs form and fuel your action, take a step back into what it is that is creating your thoughts. Your thoughts hold as much energetic currency as your actions. It’s vitally important then to have as much conscious awareness around your thoughts as it is to have awareness around the actions you take day to day. Do you put as much care and thought into crossing a busy road as you would your thoughts and internal chatter about relationships? Do you put as much conscious care into who you share your energetic output with? How much energetic currency exchange you are willing to output and what a fair exchange of energetic output looks like to you?
It is true that your experiences can shape your thoughts. That being said, how have your past relationship experiences impacted your beliefs about relationships? Do you need to recalibrate and reset your relationship experience by creating the kinds of relationship experiences you want to have? It is possible that you can do this by infusing your energetic self with the thoughts and intentions of what your ideal relationship looks like, without even having to play it out in reality.
Spend time feeding your imagination of the ideal balance in a relationship for you. Feed your intentions and thoughts with scenarios of time balance between one on one time and time do the things that are important to you. Fuel your scenarios to create the energetic vibration you want to match in your relationships.
It’s easy to get lost in the momentum of a new relationship. You get so swept up in the feeling and energy of this exciting time that the thinking part of your mind can be hushed up into the corner to make way for the feeling part that likes to enjoy and imagine all the beautiful possibilities of this new relationship (no matter how logical they are…). The brain being the awesome receptor that is directs these feelings and emotions to all the parts that want to survive and reproduce and continue on this beautiful biological event that is humanity. But where do our deeper communication pathways fit within all of this action? Where is the inner voice inside that believes that you are beautiful and deserve to be treated respectfully and equally and fairly? What happened to the voice of your inner energetic self? It’s been squeezed in the corner away from the good vibe feelings that are creating a future for your cells and DNA.
How then can we filter through the list of suitable reproductive partners to find a balanced and equal match that excites our spirit as much as our physical being??? By finding an energetically matched partner. That’s different to a partner that may have similar interests, friends, and experience. It’s about finding that vibrational match that together, you raise your vibrations and energetic impact on this planet to live out the best possible version of your existence. You are so connected and in tune with your balance and flow that you create amazing moments and energy alone or together. And that is the key. You see, its about becoming the vibrational match of who you want to be with, and living in that frequency even if you haven’t met them yet. Be your true authentic self with or without them. By radiating at your true inner authentic frequency, the similar frequency suiters are automatically attracted to you. You are as irresistible to your perfect vibrational match, as they are to you. They want what you are radiating.
By setting your energetic self up with all of the values and beliefs that you allow into your relationship experience, you are creating an energetic boundary that no firework feeling can penetrate. You are aligning yourself with what is acceptable and fair to you, leaving anything less unable to access your energetic response.
The way to aligning yourself isn’t mission impossible. It doesn’t depend on where you live, what you wear, how you look; it just depends on your inner energetic awareness being balanced with your energetic output. This is different to being out on the town looking for that ideal partner; it’s about putting yourself first in that search and looking for the people, places, situations and events that align with what feels balanced and right to you.
It may be that you need an energetic reset. You may need to recalibrate your system to really identify and know what it is you feel and want energetically, but once you know and identify you start to increase your vibration and attract the perfect match. Take the time to reset and get in tough with your energetic vibration and what its really radiating.
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